Dispatches from a Porch Swing

Dispatches from a Porch Swing

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Behaving

Behaving

and not behaving

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Jen Deaderick
Jun 17, 2021
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One thing about having a teenager around is that I hear a lot about my perceived flaws. It’s not a mean thing. It’s a totally normal way that kids have of separating out from their parents as they approach adulthood. My kid has to define herself as a separate, contrasting entity, so spends a lot of time thinking about me. I’m a mirror and a yardstick.

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